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		<title>Emotional Abuse or Gaslighting</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Aug 2009 19:52:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Cassandra</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Gaslighting occurs when a person you trust to tell you the truth about reality, is, in fact, bending reality with lies. When this happens consistently over a period of time it causes you to question your sanity. When an abuser refuses to listen, appears to misunderstand what he is completely capable of understanding, or declines [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=voiceofcassandra.wordpress.com&amp;blog=8682485&amp;post=349&amp;subd=voiceofcassandra&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Narcissistic Abuser as Slanderer</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Jul 2009 01:24:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Cassandra</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Character Assassin]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Narcissistic Abuser as Slanderer On their way through life, narcissists leave a trail of trashed good names in their wake. Read article Click Here<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=voiceofcassandra.wordpress.com&amp;blog=8682485&amp;post=343&amp;subd=voiceofcassandra&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Scheme of Gaslighting</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Jul 2009 12:25:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Cassandra</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Gaslighting is an extreme form of emotional, psychological, abuse, and as such, gradually erodes the victim&#8217;s sense of self-worth and self-esteem, with the outcome being; self-confidence destroyed.  Alas, the victim adopts a confused, disorientated stance and thus renders herself exposed, moreso, to criticism and judgment.   Henceforth, the roles are quite clear:  the victim is considered [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=voiceofcassandra.wordpress.com&amp;blog=8682485&amp;post=300&amp;subd=voiceofcassandra&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Gaslighting is Psychological Abuse</title>
		<link>http://voiceofcassandra.wordpress.com/2009/07/23/gaslighting-is-psychological-abuse/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Jul 2009 18:03:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;Gaslighting is a form of intimidation or psychological abuse in which false information is presented to the victim, making them doubt their own memory and perception. The classic example of gaslighting is to change things in a person&#8217;s environment without their knowledge, and to explain that they &#8220;must be imagining things&#8221; when they challenge these [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=voiceofcassandra.wordpress.com&amp;blog=8682485&amp;post=266&amp;subd=voiceofcassandra&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Definition of Gaslighting and Perception Blaming</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Jul 2009 16:02:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Cassandra</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Definition of Gaslighting by J. E. Brown Gaslighting A common form of brainwashing in which an abuser tries to falsely convince the victim that the victim is defective, for any purpose whatsoever, such as making the victim more pliable and easily controlled, or making the victim more emotional and therefore more needy and dependent. Often [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=voiceofcassandra.wordpress.com&amp;blog=8682485&amp;post=218&amp;subd=voiceofcassandra&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>The Gaslight Effect &#8211; Turn Up Your Gaslight Radar</title>
		<link>http://voiceofcassandra.wordpress.com/2009/07/23/the-gaslight-effect-turn-up-your-gaslight-radar/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Jul 2009 15:46:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Cassandra</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Turn Up Your Gaslight Radar Check for These Twenty Telltale Signs Gaslighting may not involve all of these experiences or feelings, but if you recognize yourself in any of them, give it extra attention. 1. You are constantly second-guessing yourself. 2. You ask yourself, &#8220;Am I too sensitive?&#8221; a dozen times a day. 3. You [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=voiceofcassandra.wordpress.com&amp;blog=8682485&amp;post=216&amp;subd=voiceofcassandra&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Gaslighting &#8211; The Gaslight Effect</title>
		<link>http://voiceofcassandra.wordpress.com/2009/07/23/gaslighting-the-gaslight-effect/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Jul 2009 14:25:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Cassandra</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Emotional Abuse]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Katie is a friendly, upbeat person who walks down the street with a smile for everyone. Her job as a sales rep means that she&#8217;s often talking to new people, which she loves. An attractive woman in her late twenties, she went through a long period of dating before she finally settled on her current [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=voiceofcassandra.wordpress.com&amp;blog=8682485&amp;post=192&amp;subd=voiceofcassandra&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>What Is Gaslighting?  The Gaslight Effect</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Jul 2009 13:50:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I strongly recommend the following book: The Gaslight Effect: How to Spot and Survive the Hidden Manipulation Others Use to Control Your Life by Robin Stern, Ph.D. * Excerpt: Are You Being Gaslighted? Your husband crosses the line in his flirtations with another woman at a dinner party. When you confront him, he asks you [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=voiceofcassandra.wordpress.com&amp;blog=8682485&amp;post=174&amp;subd=voiceofcassandra&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Emotional Manipulator Skilled Controller</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Jul 2009 00:16:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Abusers can be masters of disguise and covert operations. He or She hones their skills to expert precision, lest people see through the mask to the ruthless ambition and envy beneath. Above all, the abuser seeks to keep that mask firmly in place so as not to lose the support of those who&#8217;ve been fooled [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=voiceofcassandra.wordpress.com&amp;blog=8682485&amp;post=170&amp;subd=voiceofcassandra&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>The Smear Campaign</title>
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				<category><![CDATA[Smear Campaign]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Charming in Public]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Rumor-Monger in Private]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Two-faced]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Charming in public:   exuding warmth and charm, she smiles and tells jokes, praises and flatters you, outwardly supports you with a show of approval and reassurance, makes you feel valuable and appears to be your friend, appears to be supportive and attentive to your needs.  She always appears to be helpful. Rumor-monger in private:   criticizing [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=voiceofcassandra.wordpress.com&amp;blog=8682485&amp;post=165&amp;subd=voiceofcassandra&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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